The Deal About Cars and Women
by Patty Contenta
How important is your car when it comes down to meeting women?
Very important!
According to multiple studies, the vehicle a man owns reflects his image and has a strong affect on his perceived attractiveness and even the way he drives.
We all have stereotypes of people based off what they drive. Porche, BMW, Prius, Harley Davidson…the list goes on.
The goal of this article is to help you understand the relationship between your vehicle and your image so that you can control it and use it to your advantage.
Here’s the deal about cars and women:
It is not so much the car that is desirable to women but more as to what it represents. A great looking car signifies security, stability and luxury, which are key traits women find desirable from a man.
When a woman gets into your car for the very first time, she’s evaluating not the car you drive, but the way you take care of that car, which says a lot about how you take care of yourself.
Here is a key point to consider:
Please Her Senses.
Sight:
Keep your vehicle clean. Is your backseat piled with tons of stuff? Is the car dusty? Do you have dirty coffee cups in your cup holder? Are your compartments filled with papers, receipts that you’ve been collecting? Is the outside of your car dirty? She’s going to see it all. Gentlemen, when she gets into that car, remember it’s an extension of you. The seats should be clean. Make sure she’s not sitting on any old potato chips. Make sure there’s not a bottle of water at her feet. And definitely keep clean floor mats. A woman hates to have the heel of her shoes dirty.
Sound:
Have a good playlist. Set the mood. Be sure you’ve got the right music on, so when she gets in the car she’s sitting in an environment that’s friendly. Play a little bit of Coldplay, maybe some Ray LaMontagne, basically good, mellow music at a volume that’s not too high and not too low, just enough for background. If you really want to score points, be sure to ask what what music she likes and have it playing when she gets in the car.
It shows you were paying attention.
Taste:
Have mints and water available. If you want to exceed expectations, pay attention to details.
Walt Disney is a prime example of a company that understands how details improves customer experience.
A woman can sense your thoughtfulness when you have mints, tissues or water available for her.
Scent:
Keep your car smelling clean. Unpleasant smells actually send pain signals to the brain. It turns out that your sense of smell is the most powerful of all your five senses. In fact, the deep limbic center—the part of your brain that controls your emotions— is connected to your olfactory system, which means that different scents can affect your mood or evoke certain memories and emotions. Do not mask any odor with air fresheners, that’s a short cut you don’t want to take. Get your car detailed if there is a stubborn odor.
Touch/Feel:
Seat warmers are an added bonus. On a cold winter day, those heated seats can be soothing while a woman waits for the car to warm up.
In conclusion, it may be what’s on the inside that counts, but it’s what’s outside that attracts.
A man’s car reveals a lot about his personality and values, and may determine a woman’s attraction toward him.
Patty Contenta is a professional dancer, choreographer, judge, Master Examiner and international traveling dance consultant for the world renowned Arthur Murray Dance Studio Franchise. Founder of Sensuality Secrets, the author of Desirable And Deserving e-book and Sexy In Seconds DVD Program that helps women who are struggling with their body image reconnect with their feminine energy and sensuality through the art of body language and dance.
http://www.sensualitysecrets.com/